Introductions
The next step is to create a first impression for your future
friends to see. Its pretty easy. You just find out where
these friends hang out and let them know you have the same likes,
values and emotional concerns that they have. The hardest part?
As with new social situations, this first time meeting between
two new possible friends is weighed with emotion and dependent
upon snap judgments.
Think about it. When you meet someone for the
first time, what goes through your head? Are they cool? Do they
annoy you? Do you fall head over heels for the person? What
do you feel? These are the emotions that make first impressions
so vital in being accepted by a new friend. Research into our
friends emotions is key to a successful first impression.
It will take a little while before your future
friends will even recognize you. Give them time to see that
you're not a fly-by-night friend and that you're worth investing
some time too.